People say that looks don’t matter but first impressions do. Keeping clean and smelling good are 2 of the most essential things you need to be doing. Shower or bathe regularly and make sure to smell good but don’t go over the top.

Your clothes are next to think about. Try slipping in a bit of unusual detail or even match her style and interests. If she dresses casual then follow suit, if she likes to dress up then go for something a bit more dashing! After all once she sees elements that you have in common, she’s far more likely to notice you.

After this you need to consider how to approach her, after all if you don’t make contact then how will you ever get her to talk to you? Most girls still like guys to make the first move, whatever you do though, don’t use chat up lines as most girls cringe when they hear them! Asking how she is, is a great start as it instantly shows you care about her feelings.

Let her talk, give her space and try not to ramble. If you feel things are going really well then suggest you do and do something together but don’t suggest meeting alone, go somewhere neutral like a cafe or a bar so she won’t feel pressurised.

And make sure that you’re natural. Don’t be false or pretend to be something you’re not. This is one of the worst things you can do as once you drop the front she will see a different person and feel let down!

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